• Navigating Common Relationship Struggles as an LGBTQ Couple

    In 2021, a survey reported that nearly half of its selection of trans people felt like their significant other did not have a good understanding of their needs as a person. It is important to remember that everyone has their own baggage and personal issues that vary. Relationship issues happen to even the best couples.

    When it comes to relationships, there are bumps in the road that can be minor issues or turn into complex relationship struggles. However, just because you are a part of the LGBTQ community does not mean that you have to have more struggles than your straight counterparts. If you are looking for advice on navigating your relationship struggles, keep reading.


    Relationship conflicts can arise when one person in the relationship is not comfortable or “out” with their identity. Discovering sexuality is not an easy thing and it takes time. Everyone has different levels of comfort and this is something you cannot force someone to do if they are not ready.

    This can lead to one person feeling like they are hiding their relationship, insecure, or not enough. This only hurts a relationship because it may feel like it’s not real or you are taking steps in the wrong direction. Try to remember that everyone needs to do things on their own time, but coming out and being honest and truthful is non-negotiable or it won’t work.

    Sexual Differences

    Sexual differences can vary for each couple and stem from a number of different things. Maybe both of you are bottoms or you have a mismatched sex drive. This doesn’t mean the relationship will end, you just have to work together and be transparent.

    Try to open up and make compromises that work for both of you. Remember that for this to work you need to be completely honest about what it is you want and need. With time you will understand each other more and be able to meet the needs of your partner.

    Age Difference

    Another common struggle that can arise and present challenges is an age gap. The key to surviving this is by focusing on what stage in life you are at, rather than the number. If you are having a hard time navigating these issues consider seeking relationship counseling services to help.

    Recognize where you are both at and where you want to be and go from there.   If you are doing different things then it can be hard to share a life together which is why you need to sort out your priorities. Focus less on the age and more on where you want to get in life.

    Seek Help For Relationship Troubles Today

    Being a part of the LGBTQ community can present emotional challenges that heterosexual couples do not have to deal with. Though this doesn’t mean that you will automatically have more relationship struggles. If you are open to working with your partner and being transparent you will start off on a better note.

    Seek help in navigating your common struggles with experts who can help you enjoy stress-free relationships.

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